Of course, it didn't really go that way precisely. When you receive constant emotional abuse, it stirs you up inside, disorients you, makes you question your sanity. Why would a sane person put up with it? Last night, I chose to be on the couch in the spare room. Tonight, it seems to be a mutual thing. Our night ended with her yelling "get out of my bedroom," as if it was something she was choosing for me.
I followed up with a private deliberation with myself. I told myself once again, I need to get out of this marriage. My life will never improve with this constant source of self-hatred. Oh, now I remember what set her off. We had been watching a movie, "Good Night and Good Luck," which I chose on NetFlix. She of course fell asleep about 10 minutes in. I said, good movie, and that it will be probably be one of those films that take us a few weeks to watch. She blamed me, saying I'd been practicing piano for a half hour earlier, and had delayed our watching the movie until 10pm. Fair enough. I made the off-handed remark that my body has been doing better on less caffeine; I had drunk mainly decaf all week and my digestive system seems to be operating more healthily. Then I said I limited myself to two cups of regular coffee today, which is Saturday. She replied, incredulously, "how is that limiting yourself!?" Well, I said, compared to how much I normally drink, that's quite low. Things unraveled from there. She continued criticizing, and she said she couldn't care less about the caffeine thing. I said it was obvious she really doesn't care much about me at all, mainly because of her daily behavior, not what she says.
Meh. This posting is a jumble. But it reflects my state of mind most of the time. I need to find a way out. I need to grow some balls, and move on with my life. I need to divorce this woman.
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